taking responsibility in life

                                 
    We often hear to take 100% responsibility for our life. What is the big deal about it? The big deal is that it moves you from victim to victor of your life.

                              

1. it can help you grow into an individual with more confidence and help you to deal with your regrets, guilt’s and shame about your decisions,and also helps you to build strength of character as a person and make you better at accepting that you are not perfect and its fine to lose and doing what needs to be done to make up for mistakes.

2. mental health is the most fragile thing in our life . when we constantly punish ourselves for mistakes we have committed, it starts impacting our dialy life and abilty to function in society

                                                                                       Taking responsibility of your mistakes in itself help you   to lift the weight off of the shoulder and help to improve your mental health over the period of time .          

3. People who do not accept the responsibility they not only refuse to take ownership of their work but also miss the chance to fix what went wrong.

                  If you don’t take responsibility it make hard to solve it cause you can’t go back and fix when you don’t know how mistakes were originally committed .

4. it also means that you can be the author of your own story.            

                       For example, when a person refuse to take responsibility he cannot control and can lead toward more trouble but by taking charge helps him to control future and can change ones action

                    Taking responsibility of your life help you to grow as a human being and help you to control your action and provide a hope in life that things can be fixed in life and also help to remove toxic people around you.

    

 

5. There’s a saying that we judge ourselves by our intentions and we judge others by their behavior.

Make it your new habit to look for the intentions behind people’s behavior. So often when we understand where someone comes from, we let go of judgment ask yourself, “If I just see him/her as a human being, how will I respond differently?”

Another effective practice is listening to understand instead of listening to respond. This means to practice asking questions to really understand what the other person means, instead of waiting for a chance to interrupt and voice your important opinion.

This allows you to take responsibility to intentionally have illuminating conversations and fulfilling relationships, because the person that you are talking to will appreciate your attention, like and trust you and support you in return.

6. Taking responsibility for your happiness is liberating. Firstly to realize that happiness does not come from outside of you. It is not the job of your partner, parent, friend, child, to make you happy.

 

                                           Ask yourself, “What about this could make me happy?”